When I was planning my escape into nomad life, I had my heart set on Colombia—warm weather, low cost of living, and amazing food made it seem perfect. But once I started thinking like a nomad, I found a better fit on the other side of the globe. And that’s the challenge new nomads face: planning your first trip feels exciting… until you realize you have nearly 200 countries to choose from and no clear way to narrow them down.

In this blog post, I’ll walk you through how I made my decision—and what I learned that can help you choose a destination you’ll love.

1. Consider the Culture Shock Factor

Your comfort zone matters when you’re picking your first destination. Things like language barriers, local customs, food, and even the climate can either make the experience feel exciting or overwhelming.

Now, culture shock can hit anyone, no matter where you’re from. But here's my Culture Shock Scale based on how things might feel to someone coming from North America. It’s a loose 1-to-10 guide, where 1 is mild and 10 is wild.

THE CULTURE SHOCK SCALE

RATING

WHAT IT FEELS LIKE

EXAMPLE

1 to 2

Feels almost like home. Most people speak English, the food’s familiar, and daily life follows Western norms.

UK, Portugal, Spain

3 to 4

Small cultural quirks you notice but adapt to quickly—different meal times, greetings, or public etiquette—but nothing that slows you down.

Prague, Estonia, Caribbean

5 to 6

Noticeably different: squat toilets, language barriers, and customs you’ve never encountered, but a strong nomad infrastructure makes it easy to adjust.

 Indonesia, Thailand, Vietnam


7 to 8

Frequent friction points. Different gender norms, religious etiquette, and social rules. It’s foreign, but pop culture touchpoints keep it somewhat familiar.

Japan, South Korea, China

9 to 10

“What planet am I on?” territory. Limited English, sensory overload, conservative social norms, unpredictable infrastructure, and constant stares from locals.

India, Morocco, Sri Lanka

I chose the Philippines as my first nomad destination. For me, it was about a 6 on the Culture Shock Scale, just about the maximum I'd recommend for a new nomad.

View from my bungalow. Lapu-Lapu, Philippines. (Circa 2014)

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2. Follow Your Heart (And the Wi-Fi)

Nomads need Wi-Fi like a fish needs water—and not just any Wi-Fi. It has to be fast and reliable.

I learned that the hard way on a trip to Palawan, Philippines—easily one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever seen. I pictured myself hiking through the jungle by day, kayaking through crystal-clear lagoons, and catching up on work at night. That fantasy faded fast.

The internet was awful. Everywhere. Hotel room? Slow. Hotel lobby? Slower. Nearby café? Same story. Even mobile data didn’t save me—I was stuck with 5mbps on a good day, and it was choppy as hell. A simple task like downloading stock images for my writing assignments should’ve taken 10 minutes. Instead, it became a 45-minute nightly slog. I was losing hours every day that could’ve been spent exploring.

Had I done a little more digging—beyond gawking at pictures of rock formations and pearly white sand beaches—I would’ve known better and planned accordingly.

So before you hit “book,” check the Wi-Fi situation:

  • Read recent reviews on TripAdvisor or Reddit for internet reliability.
  • Ask your host for a screenshot of a speed test.
  • Search the average internet speed for your destination to set expectations.

A few minutes of research can save you days of frustration.

3. Don’t Be a Time Zone Zombie

Time zones were a big factor in picking my first destination. My remote team of writers, editors, and project managers was mostly in the Philippines. That meant managing client projects from my kitchen table at 2 a.m., because my team was 12–13 hours ahead.

Do that long enough and you turn into a time zone zombie—bleary-eyed, chugging coffee like it’s oxygen, and blacking out your bedroom windows just to get some sleep during the day. I wasn’t about to start my nomad life like that.

So I chose the Philippines—not just for the beaches and culture, but because I could work in the same time zone as my team. Meetings happened during the day, messages got answered in real time, and I could log off knowing nothing urgent would pop up in the middle of the night.

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Time Zone Tip: Choose a location where your workday overlaps with your clients’ or team’s by at least four hours. That’s usually enough to stay connected without working through the night. This step will help you avoid insomnia and burnout and help maintain your mental health.

4. Decide: Budget vs. Bougie

Let’s talk money. Are you a $1 street taco kind of person, or would you rather rooftop sushi? Budget-friendly hubs like Medellín and Bali offer incredible value, while Lisbon and Barcelona lean on the pricier side. The key is knowing your style and what you’re willing to spend on comfort versus adventure.

When planning your first trip, research average costs for accommodations, food, and co-working spaces in potential destinations. Tools like Nomad List or Numbeo can give you a realistic sense of what to expect.

In Lapu-Lapu, I rented a cozy beach bungalow with ocean views for about a third of my Queens, NY rent. I could have lived like a king on my old budget, but that simple view was paradise to me. It was also proof that living well doesn’t always mean spending more.

Whether you’re budget-conscious or prefer the finer things, there’s a destination to match your travel style. Identify your non-negotiables, like location, comfort, or proximity to attractions, and prioritize your spending accordingly.

Chilling on a beach boulder in Bantayan

Chilling on a beach boulder in Bantayan.

5. Chase the Weather 

Climate affects more than comfort—it can shape your mood, energy, and productivity. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) impacts about 5% of U.S. adults each year, and even without it, short winter days can drain your motivation.

Warm weather was non-negotiable for me, which made the Philippines an easy choice:

  • Warm year-round – Average temps around 27°C (80°F) with plenty of sunshine—perfect for long beach days and even bucket-list moments, like swimming alongside whale sharks in Oslob.

  • Consistent daylight – No gloomy winters, just bright mornings and warm evenings that keep your energy up.

When picking your first destination, think about what kind of climate makes you feel most alive, and don’t underestimate how much it can shape your daily experience.

Swimming with whale shark in Oslob, Philippines. ( Circa 2015).

6. Feed Your Soul and Your Stomach

We all need food to get through the day, but in a new country it’s also a shortcut to understanding the culture. The flavors, ingredients, and even the way meals are shared can tell you more about a place than a guidebook ever will.

Filipino food was new territory, but I quickly found favorites: adobo chicken, smoky liempo pork belly, and tangy sinigang soup. I even tried balut (duck fetus in a shell). It tasted exactly like what you’d imagine, and one bite was enough for me.

One thing I loved was the variety. In big cities, you could grab a burger or pizza if you were craving something familiar or try tropical flavors you’d never find back home. 

Food also impacts your budget. In the Philippines, eating out at local spots was cheaper than cooking. In other countries, it might be the opposite. If you’ve got dietary restrictions, it’s worth checking what’s available before you commit to a place.

Food Tip: Before you book, review local delivery apps like Grab and check grocery prices online. It’s a quick reality check on what your food life will look like.

7. Put Safety First, Adventure Second

Even in places that feel safe, certain neighborhoods can be sketchy, and situations can change overnight. Knowing the lay of the land helps: which areas are foreigner-friendly, what scams to look out for, and what (or who) to avoid.

Many expats love Colombia and live there in relative safety, but they know which neighborhoods to stick to. For instance, Medellín neighborhoods like El Poblado and Laureles are great for expats, while areas like Comuna 13 can be risky if you’re not careful. Pickpocketing, dating app scams, and kidnappings aren't uncommon in certain areas.

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Before you book that flight, do your homework. Look up crime rates, healthcare options, and the latest travel advisories. A little research goes a long way in making sure you can enjoy your adventure without being a crime victim.

Male digital nomad drinks beverage at beachfront restarant.

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8. Try Before You Fly

When I left New York to go full nomad, I didn’t test the waters. I never visited Colombia or the Philippines first. I did some research online, bought my plane ticket, packed my suitcase, and went for it.

It worked out. But in hindsight, it all could’ve gone very wrong.

If you're only planning to stay somewhere for a few weeks and you’re comfortable bouncing if it doesn’t vibe, cool—go for it. But if you’re hoping to stay longer, keep a work routine, or build momentum, then testing the waters is a savvy move.

What if I had moved straight to Palawan instead of Lapu-Lapu?
The place is beautiful, but the Wi-Fi and infrastructure just weren’t there for remote work. If that had been my first stop, I would’ve struggled to get work done, gotten stressed out, and second-guessed my entire decision to go nomad. My intro to the Philippines would have felt completely different.

That’s why I recommend giving any new destination at least a week-long trial run before settling in. Use it to check the Wi-Fi, get a feel for the commute, visit a coworking space, and see how you feel living there, not just passing through. Daily life hits different than vacation mode.

9. Research the Visa Requirements

Wherever you land, you’ll have to contend with visa requirements. Some countries make it easy with visa-free entry or visa-on-arrival policies, while others require more planning. For U.S. citizens, here are some common scenarios:

  • Visa-Free Destinations: Countries like Mexico and several European nations in the Schengen Zone allow stays of up to 90 days without a visa.
  • Visa-on-Arrival: Thailand offers a visa-on-arrival for U.S. citizens, but it’s limited to short stays. For longer terms, you’ll need to apply for a special visa, such as a tourist or nomad visa.
  • Nomad Visas: Destinations like Estonia and Portugal offer dedicated digital nomad visas, allowing longer stays but requiring proof of income or remote work.
  • Long-Term Options: The Philippines stands out as a unique choice. U.S. citizens can stay there for up to three consecutive years, provided they renew their tourist visa every two to six months. This flexibility means you can explore the country at your own pace without the anxiety of frequent relocations.

When I was deciding between Colombia and the Philippines, visas played a big role. Colombia’s visa policy felt restrictive compared to the Philippines, where I knew I could stay far longer and fully immerse myself in the culture. 

Where Will Your Journey Begin?

Your first digital nomad spot doesn’t need to check every box—but it should make you happy. Maybe you’re chasing adventure, low cost of living, a better social life,  or just a place with good vibes. Whatever your non-negotiables are, own them. Pick somewhere that makes it easy to get your work done and gives you something to look forward to when you close your laptop. 

Not sure where to start?  Book a consultation with me, and I’ll help you pick the perfect spot.

I’ve been where you are, and I know what works—and what doesn’t. Let's craft a plan that sets you up for an incredible first experience.

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